Thursday, July 31, 2008

Andrew

So today was a pretty typical day in my world. From the moment he woke up until I was tucking him in, I was constantly having to tell Andrew to talk quieter because we were inside. I'm still amazed at how different little boys and little girls are. Anyone who tries to tell you that they are different because of society or the way they are raised is very wrong, and has obviously never been around children. I ABSOLUTELY love my son, and wouldn't trade him for the world...but I would go crazy if I had 2 of him! Don't get me wrong, he isn't a bad kid at all. He's just all boy, all the time! Everything he does is loud (like father, like son)...walking, talking, opening things, closing things, laughing...everything! And he has that boy sense of humor...farts are hilarious, talking about "pee pee" and "poo poo" is the best thing ever, and crashes of any kind make his day. He is always moving, too. He doesn't ever sit still. Ever. Even in his sleep. And we think it's physically impossible for him to stay quiet for longer than a minute...we actually bribed him and timed it once! But he is also the most gentle-hearted, giving child you'll ever meet. He is sweet and funny. He doesn't like you to be mad or upset with him. He thrives on routine, and likes to follow the rules. He takes what people say very literally. He can be very intense, and he loves to be near people. And he is incredibly protective of his sisters. He often tells me that he wishes he had a brother. It kind of makes me feel guilty. But then again, I know that even though we don't always get what we want, it usually turns out to be what we need.

So, tonight as him and I were walking to his room, and I had to again remind him to be quiet because Devynn was already asleep, I found myself thinking how glad I am to have him. In our house full of pink, he is our blue. With all the estrogen flowing through here, he is our testosterone. While all us girls can be emotional and moody, he is our level-headed thinker. And even though he can be incredibly intense, he somehow balances our family out. He is, as Uncle Steve calls him, "The Boy."

And it wouldn't be my world without him.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Good Morning Kelly ....

Your Mom sent your blog address, which we enjoyed so much.

You and Ryan have done a spectacular job making a warm and wonderful world of family....

I picked your "Andrew" blog to attach my comment because of your insight about boys are blue and girls are pink. Who better to be Andrew's Mom than our pretty in pink Kelly. You, being the only girl of five children, were a pillar of God's intent of how blue and pink would impact this world.

Kristen's little girl, Kolena, is the youngest of three and completely rules (through love and respec, just like you) her two brothers.

Yesterday she was dressed up in her "play dress-up" outfit which included her (way to big) high heels. She went to the backyard where her Dad was teaching the boys football. All of a sudden she positioned her body, screamed "hut hut" and headed out for the tackle! Of course there is never a camera when you need one.

Your blogs are so wonderful, thank you for sharing....